By Asha Vyas
Interactions with co-workers and patrons are an unavoidable part of any library job. Like it or not, we cannot work tucked safely in a tower of floor-to-ceiling books. Practicing and teaching empathetic leadership will strengthen your organization and contribute to positive experiences for library patrons and co-workers alike.
What is empathetic leadership? Simply put, it’s acknowledging others’ perspectives in an authentic way. A key component of being authentic is engaging with others.
To begin this process, take a look at the number of connections you have. Look for ways to increase your connections and authentically foster those connections using a positive mindset. Lean in, ask leading questions, learn, and respond with information-based advice or answers.
Empathy doesn't come naturally to everyone. Here are a few actionable tips to develop empathy:
- Be curious and ask open-ended questions.
- Stay neutral and focus on offering recommendations, and solutions. Don't make assumptions.
- Actively listen more than you speak and accept the reality - you're not going to be able to solve every issue or accommodate every need, but some form of connection and understanding is key to empathy.
- Create an internal newsletter to share information and recognize co-workers for recent professional and personal accomplishments like creating a new display, patron complements, and work anniversaries.
- Offer to collaborate with a co-worker on a new initiative like hosting an event or a new service.
- Initiate in-house training on areas in which others seem to struggle and implement staff mentoring for simple items or formal training - like Linkedin Learning - for broader topics [Excel, anyone?].